Tomorrow it will be three years since our daughters’ deaths at Sandy Hook School. Three years since Emilie, Joey, eighteen of their classmates, and six of their teachers, were killed. Three years since our lives, and countless others, were forever changed.
An intruder shot out a window beside the front door of our school; and stepped through, intent on destroying us all. In many ways, he succeeded.
Yet, here we stand—with so many others beside us. Family, friends, community members, survivors and families who also lost loved ones that day. We have been joined by others—across the country and throughout the world—in support of one another and in search of a better way.
We lost our daughters that day. Yet, somehow, we continue to find them every day—in the memories our families share, in the healing relationships we’ve formed, and in our mission to empower a nation of safer school communities. Our children light the way.
What started as a small group, gathered around the Parker family’s kitchen table, has grown into a national network of stakeholders: school communities and organizations, parents, students, educators, and professionals in the fields of mental health, law enforcement, safety, security, and fire safety—all working together to make schools safer. Our practical tools, resources, and programs are making their way to school communities across the country, guiding administrators, educators and parents as they rethink school safety.
Our children are making a difference.
We look with pride upon the work they have inspired at Safe & Sound Schools. We look forward to sharing much more in the New Year.
We remember our children today, tomorrow, and every day—as we work in their honor for a nation of safer schools. They continue to guide us, teach us, and inspire us. We are grateful that they are loved, honored, and remembered by so many.
Thank you for opening your hearts to our families and our mission—and for your continued thoughts and prayers. Together, we can light the way.
Alissa and Michele
Alissa Parker, Co-Founder & Director, Safe and Sound: A Sandy Hook Initiative
Michele Gay, Co-Founder & Executive Director, Safe and Sound: A Sandy Hook Initiative
I want to express my thoughts and prayers to all familys who lost a loved one 3 years ago today at sandy hook. Im deeply sorry for your loss. Im still angry to this day that so many had to lose their lives for such a selfish and hateful action and only pray that god helps all families to somewhat ease there pain and to be able to speak out for there beloved ones. God bless you all.
My flag flys at half staff for your daughter, Emilie (with an ie like her daddy)
I think about all of you often and pray your strength keeps shinning through all our love from michigan